Stay Married for Your Children

By |2017-08-15T09:45:20-05:00January 22nd, 2017|

As of today, I have been married for 13 years.  I actually have two wedding anniversaries. The first is January 22, 2004. I was married to Martin Wesley Muhammad at the Justice of the Peace in a room full of strangers in a mass wedding. It was hilarious. I actually thought we might not be [...]

Beyoncé’s Lemonade Takes on Infidelity, Sexism, Colorism and Much More

By |2017-08-15T09:47:47-05:00May 9th, 2016|

On Saturday April 23, 2016 Beyoncé released a visual album on HBO entitled Lemonade. On the surface it appears to be a documentary of sadness and hope associated with being betrayed by her husband Jay Z.  However, a closer look reveals that she is singing about more then infidelity and recovery. She is addressing the [...]

Key Ingredients to The Recipe for Ecstasy: Intimacy & Pleasure

By |2017-08-23T16:00:47-05:00December 22nd, 2015|

In the spirit of the holidays, I wanted to give the gift of ecstasy to all of my followers. People often ask me, “What is ecstasy?”  Ecstasy is a peak emotional experience accompanied by intense sexual pleasure. It represents a time and space in an adult love relationship; a place that every couple should aspire [...]

Do You Have a Healthy Sex Life?

By |2017-08-23T16:01:42-05:00November 2nd, 2015|

I can just imagine what comes to mind for people when I pose this question. One person might think I am referring to the frequency of sex. Another person might be considering the types of sex acts that they engage in. Others might consider sexual disorders and dysfunctions. While all of the aforementioned are relevant [...]

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