Moving my Whole Life: Hard but Necessary

By | 2017-11-25T13:41:43+00:00 November 20th, 2017|

Have you ever moved your entire life? Home, business, schools, doctors, grocery stores, restaurants, hair stylists, laws, roads, neighbors, traffic…I think you get the picture. It’s a whole new world. The word relocation just doesn’t seem to capture what has transpired in my life this past year. As some of you know, my family has [...]

Sex in the Middle Age

By | 2017-08-14T19:43:32+00:00 May 10th, 2017|

In history the Middle Age is a period characterized by the fall of a great empire, merging of ideologies,  and an age of discovery.  I believe it is a fitting way to capture the experience of living as a middle aged person.  A few years ago my mother in-law told me that I was in the [...]

Stay Married for Your Children

By | 2017-08-15T09:45:20+00:00 January 22nd, 2017|

As of today, I have been married for 13 years.  I actually have two wedding anniversaries. The first is January 22, 2004. I was married to Martin Wesley Muhammad at the Justice of the Peace in a room full of strangers in a mass wedding. It was hilarious. I actually thought we might not be [...]

Beyoncé’s Lemonade Takes on Infidelity, Sexism, Colorism and Much More

By | 2017-08-15T09:47:47+00:00 May 9th, 2016|

On Saturday April 23, 2016 Beyoncé released a visual album on HBO entitled Lemonade. On the surface it appears to be a documentary of sadness and hope associated with being betrayed by her husband Jay Z.  However, a closer look reveals that she is singing about more then infidelity and recovery. She is addressing the [...]